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Post  Lesley Niyori on Mon Jul 16, 2018 8:32 pm

Negative sometimes has worth.

Not always, but sometimes.

If you are not your own friend, well, you can't expect anyone to like you if you don't like you.
People will invariably avoid negativity if they have any good sense. If you eat sleep and breath negative, you likely will end up doing it alone.

You seem to have an active hate for men.
You seem to have an active hate for penises.
I know I sure hated mine.
But I don't hate penises, I just didn't want one.
I've met a lot of dismal examples of men, but I'm aware they are not all bad. Just the single males my age in the area it seems.

I have found people I can dislike in ANY group. Cis, trans, all sexualities. That's life.
I didn't enjoy my second date being someone that just wanted to use me as an 'experience'.
That shit doesn't fly under any permutation of situation though.

I have found great friends from all sorts of places. Places I would have found unlikely. In churches, among groups of older women, and among groups of older men in male-dominated interests.

If you don't look you won't find. If you don't try, you won't succeed.
You are not going to be liked by everyone.
You are not going to be hated by everyone.

If where you live is the problem, don't stay there.
Don't say you can't leave. You can ALWAYS leave.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Jul 21, 2018 4:28 am

"Can't leave, I have social structures and systems in place and I need to stay at my base for the time being."

Cryptic and vague and non-specific.

If you are not going to offer a real explanation, then you can't expect any level of understanding on our part dear.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Jul 21, 2018 2:12 pm

Reading your reply and I am just realizing something.

I both hate Lindsay and like it.

I want to leave and yet, I should be glad I am here.

I have my doctor/dentist and friends, and I have a church community and a friendly town overall.

I live in a nice apartment and several that have been here said they liked it.

But the dating sucks.

Not really a sufficiently viable reason to discard all of the good so I have a likely barely improved chance of being refused in person by a few more men eh.

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