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Post  Lesley Niyori on Fri Aug 03, 2018 12:46 pm

Your life will be crap until you change it.

No one is responsible for making your life anything, other than you.

Life will keep teaching you the same lesson until you learn it (that's a quote, I didn't think that one up).

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Fri Aug 03, 2018 9:48 pm

Your post contradicted itself dear.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Aug 04, 2018 1:09 am

Angelic wrote:
Lesley Niyori wrote:Your post contradicted itself dear.

Well let's talk about your post. I asked for dream help, and you told me I need to help myself. Obviously if I knew how to help my dreams, I wouldn't have needed to ask for help for my dreams.

Also, my post doesn't contradict itself.

I offered my input, what you do with it is your choice.

And yes, your second post contradicted itself.

And you often ramble, seeming directionless, with a great deal of text, that seems to suggest you have very significant issues, that I don't have to qualifications to treat.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Aug 04, 2018 12:30 pm

Angelic wrote:
Lesley Niyori wrote:
Angelic wrote:
Lesley Niyori wrote:Your post contradicted itself dear.

Well let's talk about your post. I asked for dream help, and you told me I need to help myself. Obviously if I knew how to help my dreams, I wouldn't have needed to ask for help for my dreams.

Also, my post doesn't contradict itself.

I offered my input, what you do with it is your choice.

And yes, your second post contradicted itself.

And you often ramble, seeming directionless, with a great deal of text, that seems to suggest you have very significant issues, that I don't have to qualifications to treat.

You didn't offer any input. You just said, I'm responsible for my lot in life, and that was that. It wasn't even enough advice to be shoddy advice. If you really think that what you gave was advice, then this is a sad state of affairs. Your advice is the equivalent of someone telling you their car is broken down, and you saying to them "Fix it yourself, you are responsible for this car you bought and road you happened to be on when it broke down, you should have bought a Mazda."

What contradiction? There is no contradiction and even if there was you don't seem to have the energy to clarify it.
You claim I ramble, but perhaps it is because you do the opposite, post ambiguities with no elaborations. Elaborations aren't your thing I presume.

Just because you can't comprehend clarity doesn't mean it wasn't clear.
My input didn't require you to read 10 minutes of content.
Your posts are not valued based on their verbosity dear.
You are a broken record, Angel. The duration of how long you proceed to skip in your post changes nothing.
You make unfounded statements, unverified claims, outright random remarks.

Some of your posts Angel are so incomprehensible I simply don't bother to touch them.

As for my ability to elaborate, it's not something I am required to demonstrate at this time.
I'm well known for my posts being able to go into excessive detail. I am indeed a master of 'rambling'.

Angel, often you sound angry, massively in need of self-esteem, factually challenged, and living in a very peculiar world of your own creation. Most people fitting your behaviour, are invariably in need of significant professional assistance.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Aug 04, 2018 1:15 pm

Is it time now for me to cut to the chance and start using juvenile rebutals?

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sat Aug 04, 2018 2:25 pm

Something tells me you just haven't a clue.

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Post  Celia Eriksson on Sun Aug 05, 2018 2:49 pm

Ok girls, pack it up now... Please read my open letter to you both on 'Scary Times' in the Politics thread. No more posts here, I'm not going to lock this one, I can't keep going round locking everything, else this board is going to look like a prison.

We have some young members here, what kind of example is being set here?

How about a little togetherness. Both of you remove your posts up to the point where you think it went awry. Or if you think I'm being bossy, just don't comment further upon each others posts.


Celia xx

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Post  Celia Eriksson on Sun Aug 05, 2018 3:56 pm

Angel, it's there, it was a work in progress and it's taken an hour of my time to do, it was necessary to act, after receiving two personal messages about it from different members.

I do think it would be nice not to have to lock posts and make these statements because of disagreement between members that clearly turn to having a venomous nature about them. I just want peace here, I have given options all the way along the line. Either be nice to each other or simply turn the page and do not answer each others posts. Either delete, or don't swap posts.

If someone baits me, I don't have to have the very last word, because soon I have run out of the good words that win my point. it's worth a try.


The End. Please. Celia.

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Post  Lesley Niyori on Sun Aug 05, 2018 4:39 pm

It takes a single hurtful word I have found, to last and linger for days.

For me at least.

An unkind remark, an ill intent. Even on a day that has been stellar to that point, all is ruined by that single instance.

There is no excuse for making unkind remarks, ever.

I am not offering any. But I hold everyone accountable for all of their actions. So no excuses.

When posting, consider the contents of the post. What might seem harmless, might not be.
Even just a barrage of negativity is enough to be triggering, even if not aimed at a specific individual.

I've had people I respect tell me some of my comments on my own Facebook were in need of alteration. It's what a person does next, that measures the value of the person.

This IS a safe place. Celia makes it safe.
And the rules are the rules, and I follow them.
And if I wander over the line, I don't object to it being pointed out.
And I get back inside of the line.

I am now back inside of that line.

No one wins an argument on the internet.

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Post  Celia Eriksson on Sun Aug 05, 2018 5:46 pm

Well, I appreciate you both baring your soul a little here and I am sure everyone likes what you have both written. So I think we can all help each other by showing kindness and respect and by breathing out and thinking for a few minutes before sending a post. Thank you girls, nice posts, everyone understands you a little better.

Celia xx

PS I am not abandoning you know, I am on a nightshift, I will be here tomorrow. I am doing nothing tomorrow except pampering myself. I deserve it.

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