Funny retrospective thoughts

It is a sad, and true reality, that we often lose so much of our past connections with the change over to our real selves.

Friends from the past disappearing because they couldn't accept us as we actually are.

But, it's not impossible to get in some laughs at their expense if you think about it.

My friend Rob, we liked driving around. He once asked me to go with him to the drive-in.
Now I picture him realizing "ewww, I took Bunny to the Drive-in."
Other friends realizing, "eeww, I used to play in the woods with Bunny."

So many seemingly innocent activities. But now long after the fact, my being able to recall it and bring it up. "You guys call me a faggot, hmm, you once seemed to be ok sleeping with me though."

"Now you guys know why I enjoyed playing female characters in our role game sessions. I wasn't 'acting' like a girl."

Sometimes the best defense is as always a good offense. Don't let them put you down for not being one of them, put them down, for them being one of us .

I'm a very likable person. I think it's because I'm a girl and I'm just fun.

Not that I had many male friends and I suspect those I had thought I was gay before being out was a thing.

I did have a friend, still a friend I must say. But his then girlfriend who was bi, picking up on my reputation and frankly demeanour badgered me. Lovely girl and very persistent. Eventually I gave in and admitted the truth. She told him of course. The moment of truth came when I was in his car and he brought it up. His main worry was whether I was attracted to him. 'Of course not' was my reply. A total lie of course.

But given the fact that he was the ultimate cliche straight guy. He completely accepted me as a woman, before I was able to.

Says a lot about him as a person.